
Imagine …. you have friends coming over for Sunday lunch, which was planned over a week in advance, and they’ve requested Chinese. U are excited and want to impress, so you go all out and plan a really fancy menu… duck, grouper, crabs , prawns , beef , man tau , dumplings , udon noodles, tofu … , …. 3 desserts … the works ! Start a day ahead and go to the other side of town on a blazing hot day to get the ingredients while u are sick and your head is spinning and u even have diarrhea ( gross i know … sorry ). Not to mention the aching wisdom tooth which is digging into your cheek and making your whole left side sore. And you have to run frm one place to gather all the things, which are available in all different directions n specially to find a special ingredient – Mascarpone cheese which apparently is not available anywhere. Finally get back home in the evening and start off immediately, cutting, marinating n preparing getting everything ready for the next day. By the time you are finished its almost 11 and the last thing you do is whack a cheesecake in the oven which requires 1 hr 20 mins to bake. With an oven like mine which takes 45 mins to bake a 25 min recipe its definately going to take longer. So u are up till 2:30 a.m watching n waiting till the damn thing is done( which is another story altogether ). Finally u hit the bed with an alarm set for 7:30 as you have to go to the fish market at the port to buy some fresh seafood. U do wake up on time, brush and run. Manage to get some fresh crabs, prawns, and a beautiful Grouper. Back home, making the dough for Man Tau … steamed bread as it needs 2 hrs 20 mins to rise …. n still running around trying to organize which plates to serve what in, getting the place tidied up as you are expecting them at around 1 p.m …. and back to the kitchen , preparing the cold starters and dipping sauces. And then your mobile gets a “TEXT MESSAGE” saying sorry cant make it ..bla bla bla …. and you go like hmmm why couldn’t they have called instead … or more over why didn’t they inform a day ahead … but never mind u say alrite at least the others are comming … still gotta finish a few things. At around 12 u call the others as u want to make sure they have the directions to your house ( we moved recently ) and they go like … oh but didn’t u know we’re not comming, didn’t someone call u yesterday ( no ! no one did !!!) !!! At that point what do you do ???? What would your reaction be ??? Obviously try n coax them to come … after all you’ve slogged your sick butt out for them. But nothing … all you end up with is 2 fridges full of food and a very very very foul mood !
Can you believe that … your own friends … ! I think i’m just being too touchy about the whole issue and over reacting, anyone else and i wouldn’t have minded … would’ve just invited someone else over the next day and recycled the food, but this time i was just too pissed off. But now that i’ve shared it i feel better. Phew. So now that thats done … let me tell you about my cheesecake.
Amarula Chocolate and Mascarpone cheesecake with a Hazelnut and flapjack crust.
You may want to know what Amarula is. It is a South African cream liqueur made with the fruit of the African Marula tree. To me its Africa’s version of Irish Cream. Its a little sweeter and less alcoholic compared to Baileys Irish cream , and its obviously the preferred drink here. I thought it would be perfect for my cheesecake, which was a Delia Smith recipe but i had to change it drastically as i believe they never give the perfect recipe and u never get the results they claim to get. Also i did make a BIG mistake of using Creme Fraiche instead of the Fromage frais ( cuz thats what i found… not easy getting European products in Ghana). So well i had to re do it. Imagine my disappointment, when after baking it for almost 2 hrs i touch the cake and it still wobbles like a water bed. Eek ! i poured out the whole thing again and added some eggs and some more mascarpone whisked it all together and re baked it. And voila – it worked ! So here’s the full proof recipe …
Ingredients
- 200gms dark chocolate
- 2 x tub mascarpone
- 2 x 200g fromage frais 8% fat
- 2-3 shots of Amarula
- 6 large eggs
- 80 gms caster sugar
- 100 gms chopped hazelnuts
- 270 gms Lyons country snapjacks – crushed by hand
- 50 gms melted butter
- chocolate curls to decorate

Start with the base of the cheesecake. I used a 26 cm loose bottom tin. Mix the butter, hazelnuts and biscuits and press it in the tin all over the bottom and raise it a little on the sides. Bake it for 20mins at 150 degrees C , and let it cool.
For the cheesecake, start with melting the chocolate in a double boiler and melt till smooth. In another big bowl mix the mascarpone and fromage frais with an electric hand whisk and when blended to a smooth consistency add the eggs and sugar. Mix it well again and fold in the melted chocolate and Amarula. U can use Irish cream instead . Pour it into the tin and bake for 1 hr 20 mins or till u think the cheesecake is set and very slightly wobbly at the center.May take longer depending on your oven. Then remove it gently and leave it on the counter and let it cool and then chill it overnight. To serve decorate with chocolate curls.

OMG all that food, it sounds amazing!
I’m so sorry you went through all of that. I wouldn’t have turned that feast down for anything!
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Wow! So sorry that, I can imagine after all the hard work how you feel! Well, all your labor and talent are very much appreciated by all of us virtual admirers…honestly, if you lived in the next town, I’d be knocking on your door for all 3 desserts
I hardly eat cheesecake, but this looks luscious and wait! I want me a bottle of Amarula first!!
Kate, I hope you feel better now… You know, sometimes things like that happen. I experienced it before, but well…
Anyway, you have made a fab cheesecake! I cant wait to try it!
You are not being touchy or over reacting at all!! It was really rude to tell you so late that they’re not coming!! I’d be hopping mad too…at least you have good food to feed you for a while on the bright side
And the cheesecake? To die for!!!
Oh dear! What a mess, seems like a plot to me…
They’ve missed so much from all that I read!
I mean if you have invited someone and who knows that you will probably be preparing so much food and will put so much efort in it, I don’t know, but not even calling personally to decline the day before, I call this disrespect.
Invite other people and forget about the first ones
The cheese cake looks great, the desliciousness itself
Cheers!
oh how i know that feeling! in that kind of situation actually better for the friends not to show up as i would be ready to kill
sounds like amazing food though. their loss
nixtress … thanks…i really wish i could invite all my blogger friends over !
alanna…welcome to the world of food blogging, thanks for being a ardent reader , will definately chk ur blog
Mo … then Amarula it is for you …! How about moving to Ghana … then u can always drop by :p
anh …i know … i should’nt worry so much ..its no big deal ! Well i do hope u try the cake.
nabeela…..thanks you for sharing the passion ! hehe yes i’ve been serving cheesecake n pudding to everyone who’s been visiting my place.
alita …i dont know what went wrong, but maybe next time i will not put in so much effort
it left a bad taste in my mouth.But yeah they did miss all that food
)Thanks for your concern !
andrea …. so was i !! but then i just went n took a nice cold shower n cooled off ! ..hehe now i have all this food and nothing to do in the kitchen for 3 days !!!
That’s just not fair, sweetie!
Friends sometimes do bad things, too, right? And next time you have a fridge full of your delicious food, not to mention this breathtaking cheesecake, call me!
…patricia at this point u have me nodding like a little baby
… yes i’d call u gladly …i wish i was not so far away from all my blogger friends
i agree it is very rude to tell you so late, especially after all the hard work, work that people normally put into cooking for friends, especially if they’re people like us.
i’d probably go ballistic, too, but then i’d calm down. (i’m like that, i need to go through such ‘phases’, and then i’m ok.) i think it’s good to get angry, and go through that anger. then, you start thinking about it. they’ve designated one person to let you know, and this person failed to do it. things like these happen, it’s not necessarily malicious. i don’t think they meant anything bad, they just didn’t realise, which people sometimes just don’t. people are often just clumsy, which this sounds like to me. Do tell them they should have told you sooner, and that you worked really hard, with a cool tone that is actually more effective in getting the message through. You can all learn sth through this. Hug!
oh god that cheesecake! [gasp!] Can i have some?
pretty please….
maninas … i guess they didn’t mean to do it on purpose but just a little thought in advance would’ve been better
I did cool off eventually… i cant stay mad for too long either. I ‘m such a softy :p. I dont think I’ll tell them either … just let it pass , but i may not end up putting in so much effort the next time
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and yes ….i ‘d love to give you that cheesecake. There is so much blogger love going around I’d make one for each one of you
Shn
I would be quite upset and never invite those friends over again!! What a lot of work you put into that meal!! If I’m ever in your neck of the woods, I would never cancel on a meal like that!! And that cheesecake looks amazing. I hope you are feeling better!
very pretty looking cake!! simply decadent:)
gosh, I would be equally pissed if friends turned me down on the last minute. If I stay anywhere near you, I would come with a minute notice.
Hope you are feeling better.
mishmash , something good had to come out of it rite :p , u shud get your hands on some amarula…its nice.
deborah , thanks …yes i’m feeling so much better ,… all these wonderful comments can more than lift anyones mood.
sharmi …thanks
Mandy … i really wish all the bloggers lived close to each other… its a diff thing we would all be fat , from feeding each other , but we’d be happy n fat !!! Hahaha… thanks so much. I ‘m definately feeling better
hey Kate, Amarula sounds very yummy! maybe if i could go on a trip to africa i will remember to bring one bottle home.
i’m sorry to hear that you’re working so hard and then had the dinner cancelled. how untoughtful! ha! i’d be pissed too if i were you…too bad you don’t live close to me, i’d come anytime you ask me too
hey Kate, Amarula sounds very yummy! maybe if i could go on a trip to africa i will remember to bring one bottle home.
i’m sorry to hear that you’re working so hard and then had the dinner cancelled. how untoughtful! ha! i’d be pissed too if i were you…too bad you don’t live close to me, i’d come anytime you ask me too
poor you. i hope you’re feeling much better. i know what it’s like to have guests cancel at the last minute after you’ve gone thru so much fuss. bloody annoying. made me think twice about inviting those folks again…
anyhow, the feast that you planned sounds fabulous. well, it was your absent guests’ loss.
the cheesecake looks smashing. bet it tastes divine.
your photos always look perfecty lit and focused. how do you do it? what camera do you have?
eliza , i’m sure u can find one in your country. But a bottle from a trip to africa is definately something else:) …. maybe when you do make it here u can drop by …my invitation is open for you at all times
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maybahay … it sucks doesnt it !!! the cheesecake was a big hit. I ended up sharing it with many people and they all loved it. I use a 400D EOS Canon. And the light was natural at 4 in the evening. Its still very hot and bright in Africa.
Why does that have to look SO good. It’s unfair. I’m at uni now trying to study! =P heh, awesomelooking cake.
I am sorry your friends did not turn up when you went to so much trouble for them, but it is their true loss as they food would have been wonderful, I NEVER would turn down an offer like yours… Vida x
oooooooh! That’s all I can say! oooooohhh! I am spellbound by your cheesecake!
Victoria … oh … i had no idea. K then i think i’ll just have to send you some :p
vida … that is really sweet of you
, i’m guessing they did’nt mean to … and they got busy with something else. Just that they shuld’ve informed… but its really ok now. This way atleast i got to know if i invite all my blogger friends over …it’ll one smashing party
Helen … thanks … it was quite heavy though !
Your cheesecake looks beautiful…and you are not being touchy at all to be irked about the last minute cancellation after all of your work and preparation to create such a nice evening. Some people just don’t think of how their actions will affect others…they lost out on a wonderful dessert, that’s for sure.
wish you invited me instead! forget about the waistline and i’ll have a slice of that cake! yum! anything with mascarpone, i’m in! and bte? you’re not over reacting! you have all the right to feel that way:( imagine all the touble and not to mention the stress! but i hope you’re feeling better though:) hey have a great weekend!
that was btw, not bte
and trouble…sorry:)
Amarula just makes me think of home and friends. I saw over at Cook Sister(on my linklist), Jeanne has made Don Pedro and that got me taking out the Amarula again…now if I just make your divine Amarula cheesecake as well..I might just be able to transcend back home!
Ronell
How Horrible!! If only they knew what they were missing with that glorious cheesecake!
I really think that’s quite rude to leave a text, and not call, it’s like shirking your responsibility in my book.
Your feast sounds like it would have been wonderful too. I hope that you are feeling a lot better now.
Send them a text with a pic of this fab cheesecake – “see what you missed!” – I’m only joking but it’s a pleasant day dream =)
Belinda … hehe …thank you ! later i was even guilty that i felt that way , but now its a thing in the past ! all your wonderful comments made me feel so much better.if only everybody thought before acting the world would be a much different place.Imagine there would’ve been no global warming too
ces … u know – i should’ve
it would’ve been real good fun ! I still have a tub of mascarpone lying in my fridge …just tell me when u ready to book a flight to Africa ..hehe.
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I’m feeling just fine now …thanks so much
and ces… hehe dont worry …i got it the first time
Ronell … where about from SA are you ? there are so many wonderful SAfrican dishes to make. I even made Malva Pudding , but i didn’t take pics of it. It was my back up dessert frm the 3 i mentioned in the post.I was eating it for 3 days in a row and had to eventually give it away ! Amarula is truly the taste of Africa !!
Clumsy ..
well a lot of other people got to enjoy it , so the cheesecake did not go waste.
Kelly – Jane , people do get forgetful sometimes , and besides everyone is not the same . u just learn from your mistakes and move on … my lesson … call and chk again the day before , and 2 …not to get so mad !! …
I am absolutely perfect now , and now that i look back i feel silly for having created such racket about the whole thing …:P
DD
but i really like ur naughty idea of sending them that message. Or better still , a link to this post and all these wonderful and supportive comments !!! what do you think
Oh and i learnt a new word today …”shirking ”
Ooh gosh! That so sucks and I know…doesn’t even begin to describe how must have felt, especially being sick! Your food looks fantastic so am gonna say, they missed out…forgetful or not, not so nice!
Love the cheese cake idea. Never made cheese cake but since I have about 1/4 of the Amarula bottle left, think I might actually try this. By the way, hope to make your husband’s baked egg recipe tomorrow..will let you know.
I am so sorry your friends bailed on you like that… I would have been SOOO pissed… seriously… who does that?
Looks gorgeous…but what are snapjacks? Very curious…
Oh how annoying about your friends. I would be miffed too!!!!
On another note though OH MY GOD the Amarula Chocolate and Mascarpone cheesecake looks amazing!!!! I was just reading about someones divine cheesecake adventure on another blog, which reminded me I hadn’t had cheesecake in years and now I see this. I will DEFINTELY be cooking this on the weekend, if I can wait that long. YUMM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
That sounds really bad! Now, they need to have really a good excuse for not showing up at the last minute. I wish I were your neighbor
Your cake (nuts apart) is really a nice idea. I love Amarula (especially after being where they make it) and cheesecake.
M & M’s , thanks so much …it did feel really terrible, but now its long gone and i’m so over it
Did met up with them again and all’s ok !
If u’ve never made cheesecake u are really missing out on something. Its a must try dessert cake.And my hubby will be very very glad to know that u’re going to use his recipe….he’ll be beaming all day .Pls let me know how it goes.
Melody … i guess they had something else to attend to , and could not make it. My only problem in the whole thing was they should’ve let me know a day before ! THANKS a lot ..:)
About He She Chew Chew …snapjacks is a golden oatflake biscuit with wholemeal flour. The taste is also a good deal less sweet than the McVities HobNob or Abbey Crunch, and the biscuit texture is also much crunchier than the HobNob.
Delicieux …yeah sometimes your best friends can do that you…!
Cheesecakes are indeed divine. I started my passion for baking with a ricotta cheesecake. I made it for my boyfriends birthday then. And everyone loved it even though i had no clue as to what i had done.
I do hope u make the cheesecake …Good Luck with it.
The Food Traveller … thy did have a good excuse , so i could’nt even tell them anything ..:P
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If you were my neighbour i would definitely make you a nut free version of this cake
I must give you my cell number. I would love to the backup guest to help you eat all that food when you friends bail out again.
Yum.
Lovely cake! I adore cheesecakes and surprisingly, I have heard of Amarula. I was looking for another brand of liquor but couldn’t find it and was recommended by the salesperson to try Amarula.
Unfortunately, I can’t recall if I have tasted it, since I don’t drink much alcohol.
I have bottles of vodka and baileys sitting at home, undrunk. So I suspect that I didn’t get to try my Amarula and mum probably threw it away:(
Anyway, I just wanted to say that I’m sorry to hear about your unfortunate day. Being sick and cooking is something I wouldn’t do. Hope that you are feeling better:)
Cheryl ..haha …u must
i’m waiting.
Alicia , i’m dont drink alcohol now either .. quit 3 yrs ago , use them for cooking n desserts though. fortunately had tasted Amarula before so i could use it
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n i think if your Amarula was lying around for too long it ust have gone bad ( cream based )so therefore your mum must’ve chucked it out.
use your vodkas to make risotto …tastes really nice – just use a shot of it. and baileys are great for desserts… so u can use up all the booze lying in your cupboard.
Thanks for your concern
Ah, Amarula. You’ve done a great job Kate.
It’s completely fine to be pissed off at friends who do silly things like… to echo everyone else on your comments section, I would not have missed the feast for anything!
Kate,
I would never miss your parties…you sound like the best hostess!The cheesecake looks fabulous!
Gosh! After all the trouble you went through! You should probably send them your blog link. They should realize what they missed!
Awesome looking cheesecake.
nolan …thanks
Extempore …. u will definately get to eat my food. I’m guessing very soon
Anita , that is soo sweet of you . Thanks so much
Rachel … maybe i shud
but i’m way over it now .. doesn’t really matter anymore.
Well, I guess your friends should call themselves lucky if you ever even considered inviting them again… Hope they read this and see what they’ve turned down!
If it’s any consolation, your cheese cake looks fabulous – you’ve got plenty of wonderful pictures on your blog!
That’s so frustrating!
But on the upside, that cheesecake looks amazing!
Eva …. in fact i just did …this weekend
…hopefully this time it’ll go well .
Thank you for dropping by and your sweet words.
Brilynn ..thanks !